Helpful Hints to Liberating Your Mind from the Threat of Betrayal
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Best Selling Author , writes… …
“I am afraid of being betrayed again, but I truly wish to find my soul mate. How can I gain confidence and find my soul mate”?
You have two ways to go here. 1) You can mope until you’ve had enough time in between the hurt in your previous relationship or 2) begin moving on and releasing the past. Since you want to reach your soul mate, then I would do the work in releasing. It’s faster and easier than you’d think. Getting assistance from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the path.
Receiving guidance to do release work is a way of releasing and freeing yourself from the past. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You are making energetic space for the amazing, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.
I can hear some of you right now saying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really needs to be let off the hook for his behavior. He wronged me and that is just that”! The will it takes to hold a grudge presides in your space. You are allowing your happiness to be drained away from you. It is a slow trickle in your energy level and after a while, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. What’s more, that little energy trickle prevents you from letting all of your power focused in the present moment. When you do not have your consciousness in the moment, do you imagine you are going to be a powerful, deliberate creator? It becomes that much more impairing. Take your full power back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that burden you, clutter up your energy field and prevent you from moving forward to having the life you were meant to live. You can speed up the process immensely by getting help from a life coach.
I find that the idea of forgiving can be a convoluted one. Firstly, I am not talking of the type of forgiving where we were excusing someone else’s poor behavior. It’s important to have healthy boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel concerning who you want in your life and who you don’t, how you want to spend your life and with whom. It’s important to realize what will work for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the space of pain, you’ll either attract more pain or have a difficult time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.